Hi guys,
My favorite Creole Lady is not doing to good. The leaves are yellowing and are falling off. They do look like a classic spider mite case, but i can not find a single bug! Im looking every day, sprayed with oil for 3 weeks then moved on to a chemical (Brayer Disease and Mite control) so far sprayed only twice but see no improvement.

Im in Florida, and its HOT! I water lots, and fertilize with HVH fertilizer every other week. All my plants are treated with Bayer 3-1 the granular version, and as soon as i noticed this happening i sprayed all of them with Neem oil... could it be some sort of chemical reaction, or overload? Or maybe overwatering? All the other plants are doing great though. Please help, i'm stomped

Here is how it started:
Here is what it looks like now:

And here is a leaf:
