The warmer you can keep your house the better, although 55 seems fine to me. You might lose your seed pods there, though. My one and only seed pod ever fell off Saffron because it was too cold. It was Sunkissed Blonde x Saffron... will do that cross again if/when SKB makes it back.
Sorry for the tangent!!

Anyway, with watering maybe have him water every third day or every other day? I wouldn't say wait until it looks dry because it sounds like they may be dead by the time he figures it out... lol...