Hi Ulli
Plants have what we call indeterminate growth, meaning that they will continue to grow as long as they are alive and healthy. Your Dwarf Palms will continue to grow, but when they reach their predicted height their growing usually slows down significantly so you dont really notice it. The same is true for Hibiscus. They can reach a larger size than predicted but between pruning them to look nice and them slowing their growth down alot around their predicted size you should have a good idea as to what size the adult plant will be.
Fish also are indeterminate growers, so what they say is true, the larger the fish, usually the older.
Hope this helps