Hi Kerry,
SFV should be fine as far as most hibiscus varieties are concerned. I see a bunch of hibiscus growing all over the place there, and where I am, which is about 20 miles north of SFV. Granted most the varieties I see are the more hardy garden varities, but if you provide a micro climate for them, they should be fine. I would just pick the ones that she likes best!
More cool weather tolerant varieties I know of are: Magic Carpet Ride and Solar Eclipse. Also if you can manage getting her older plants, they usually come out of cooler weather better than younger specimens. I am sure Charlie will have more to add to my short list
The cv's I am trying to root would do good in her garden but they are still not rooting. I have bought a more powerful root hormone so I will see if that works. But I was thinking about getting her some tried and trues so how they do. I read the info on magic carpet ride so that one will probably be great. I wanted to buy valentines day and give her that for her birthday since she was born on v day

but I will grow it out for her for next spring.